What should you not do when talking to a person using a wheelchair?

Patting someone on the head can be perceived as condescending or patronizing, regardless of whether that person uses a wheelchair or not. This gesture may imply that the person is of a lower status or not worthy of adult interaction, which can diminish their dignity and autonomy.

In contrast, maintaining eye contact, asking about their day, and respecting personal space are all respectful ways to engage with someone in a wheelchair. These actions demonstrate that you recognize their personhood, allow for a more equal conversation, and maintain comfort during the interaction. By avoiding any gestures that might come across as infantilizing, such as patting on the head, you foster a more respectful and humanized interaction.